MsC 2025 Classes (Click Titles to Expand)
Accountability is
Love not Blame
BlindDancer & TouchGoddess
Join us in challenging how we think about accountability and improvement. Holding ourselves and our partners to the highest standards need not be about fear of disappointment and focusing on mistakes. We will dive into tools for focusing on our steady, ongoing improvement rather than on mistakes and disappointment. We will talk about accountability for the small every day improvements as well as the bigger challenges to our dynamics. We will start with personal accountability and expand that to tools for loving, connected accountability.
BlindDancer & TouchGoddess
Join us in challenging how we think about accountability and improvement. Holding ourselves and our partners to the highest standards need not be about fear of disappointment and focusing on mistakes. We will dive into tools for focusing on our steady, ongoing improvement rather than on mistakes and disappointment. We will talk about accountability for the small every day improvements as well as the bigger challenges to our dynamics. We will start with personal accountability and expand that to tools for loving, connected accountability.
Master/slave
Research: Insights from the Cutting Edge
Brad Sagarin
As Master/slave and other Authority Transfer relationships continue to capture the vanilla world’s imagination, researchers are increasingly turning their attention to understanding the dynamics of these relationships. In this session, we’ll take a deep dive into the latest research on consensual Authority Transfer and Master/slave relationships. We’ll explore findings on 24/7 dynamics, the negotiation of ongoing consent, community perceptions of M/s, and how these relationships are navigated in daily life. We’ll also discuss what sets M/s apart from other forms of BDSM and examine how researchers are beginning to recognize the emotional depth, structure, and mutual care that characterize these powerful connections.
Brad Sagarin
As Master/slave and other Authority Transfer relationships continue to capture the vanilla world’s imagination, researchers are increasingly turning their attention to understanding the dynamics of these relationships. In this session, we’ll take a deep dive into the latest research on consensual Authority Transfer and Master/slave relationships. We’ll explore findings on 24/7 dynamics, the negotiation of ongoing consent, community perceptions of M/s, and how these relationships are navigated in daily life. We’ll also discuss what sets M/s apart from other forms of BDSM and examine how researchers are beginning to recognize the emotional depth, structure, and mutual care that characterize these powerful connections.
Beyond Matching
Kinks: Rethinking Compatibility in Master/slave Dynamics-
Brad Sagarin
What makes an Authority Transfer relationship truly work? New research from our lab—conducted with people in a variety of BDSM dynamics—challenges the popular idea that shared kinks are the key to satisfaction. Instead, our findings show that a partner’s willingness to indulge the other’s desires—even when those desires aren’t shared—is more strongly linked to relationship satisfaction than compatibility alone. In this session, we’ll explore our recent study alongside broader relationship research on adaptability, partner responsiveness, effective communication, and shared experiences—all shown to support long-term relational success. We’ll examine how these principles play out in Authority Transfer relationships, where the question of “compatibility” often looks very different than in vanilla partnerships.
Brad Sagarin
What makes an Authority Transfer relationship truly work? New research from our lab—conducted with people in a variety of BDSM dynamics—challenges the popular idea that shared kinks are the key to satisfaction. Instead, our findings show that a partner’s willingness to indulge the other’s desires—even when those desires aren’t shared—is more strongly linked to relationship satisfaction than compatibility alone. In this session, we’ll explore our recent study alongside broader relationship research on adaptability, partner responsiveness, effective communication, and shared experiences—all shown to support long-term relational success. We’ll examine how these principles play out in Authority Transfer relationships, where the question of “compatibility” often looks very different than in vanilla partnerships.
Beyond Behavior:
Master and slave as Identity
Chai
Participants will explore identity, the role of community in identity development, and identity disruption. Exercises help individuals define their personal identities and then exercises and education will be combined to strengthen M/s identity in and out of relationships.
Chai
Participants will explore identity, the role of community in identity development, and identity disruption. Exercises help individuals define their personal identities and then exercises and education will be combined to strengthen M/s identity in and out of relationships.
Serving While
Being Served
Daddy Daun & slavegirlJ
Sir DaddyDaun was raised in a Southern Baptist family with eight, yes eight, ministers in Her immediate family. Service is the very core of Her being. Those roots have morphed from ‘organized religion’ to a broader spirituality. She not only had to come to grips with changing how She served Her Higher Powers but how to do this while allowing another to serve Her. Meanwhile Her slave, girl j was raised to never ‘buy into’ any religion ever. Ever. Breaking away from those rules, she found her calling was to serve a Master who served Their Higher Powers. Join Sir DaddyDaun and slavegirl j as T/they share how T/their separate paths of Master and slave joined into one of a spiritual Master/slave dynamic.
Daddy Daun & slavegirlJ
Sir DaddyDaun was raised in a Southern Baptist family with eight, yes eight, ministers in Her immediate family. Service is the very core of Her being. Those roots have morphed from ‘organized religion’ to a broader spirituality. She not only had to come to grips with changing how She served Her Higher Powers but how to do this while allowing another to serve Her. Meanwhile Her slave, girl j was raised to never ‘buy into’ any religion ever. Ever. Breaking away from those rules, she found her calling was to serve a Master who served Their Higher Powers. Join Sir DaddyDaun and slavegirl j as T/they share how T/their separate paths of Master and slave joined into one of a spiritual Master/slave dynamic.
Intervention
Daddy Daun & slavegirlJ
Living in a community that is on the edge of "normal" societal behaviors can open the door for real abuse to occur. When is it time to step in if what you perceive happening is abuse? And what is the appropriate way to do it? International Master 2017/2021 Sir DaddyDaun has spent 30 years in the lifestyle and witnessed several situations where someone either was stopped or should have been stopped. Join Her and her slave, International slave 2017/2021 girl j, as T/they talk about several possible abuse situations, deescalation tactics, tips, and success stories.
Daddy Daun & slavegirlJ
Living in a community that is on the edge of "normal" societal behaviors can open the door for real abuse to occur. When is it time to step in if what you perceive happening is abuse? And what is the appropriate way to do it? International Master 2017/2021 Sir DaddyDaun has spent 30 years in the lifestyle and witnessed several situations where someone either was stopped or should have been stopped. Join Her and her slave, International slave 2017/2021 girl j, as T/they talk about several possible abuse situations, deescalation tactics, tips, and success stories.
Pushing Limits
Domina Alluriah
Most who identify on the Left side of the slash has heard at one point or another " I have no limits " or " I want to have my limits pushed ". Without negotiation and consent we can't even begin to know where to start. But what does it mean when you DO know? And how do you do it? After understanding the basic fundamentals and putting them into practice, we often grow and evolve beyond our first steps and often we yearn for harder; for more extreme. In this discussion we will go over what it takes to know when you're ready and how to push past your limits. This class is not exclusive to one side of the slash or another. As a D type how do we safely, patiently and carefully help ourselves as well as our s-types develop and as an s-type, how does one ask, or approach and respectfully request more? The misconception is that our limits are simple and easy to "push" but the reality is much more complicated and nuanced. Together, we'll work to peel back the layers and move forward on our journeys without going too hard too fast and burning ourselves out or souring ourselves altogether by biting into, or off, more than we can chew.
Domina Alluriah
Most who identify on the Left side of the slash has heard at one point or another " I have no limits " or " I want to have my limits pushed ". Without negotiation and consent we can't even begin to know where to start. But what does it mean when you DO know? And how do you do it? After understanding the basic fundamentals and putting them into practice, we often grow and evolve beyond our first steps and often we yearn for harder; for more extreme. In this discussion we will go over what it takes to know when you're ready and how to push past your limits. This class is not exclusive to one side of the slash or another. As a D type how do we safely, patiently and carefully help ourselves as well as our s-types develop and as an s-type, how does one ask, or approach and respectfully request more? The misconception is that our limits are simple and easy to "push" but the reality is much more complicated and nuanced. Together, we'll work to peel back the layers and move forward on our journeys without going too hard too fast and burning ourselves out or souring ourselves altogether by biting into, or off, more than we can chew.
Mentors and
Mentees
Domina Alluriah
Mentors and mentees are an often overlooked component to growth in the lifestyle and world of Power exchange. Many mistake this as a form of power exchange and confuse it with intimate relationships. Mentors can be on either side of the slash, or switches, as well as mentees. This discussion will focus on the dos and don'ts, the important roles they play, and how enriching a journey can become if this type of role is employed. Having been on both sides of this kind of interaction, we will discuss the nuances and misconceptions as well as the purpose and reward of being either a Mentor or Mentee
Domina Alluriah
Mentors and mentees are an often overlooked component to growth in the lifestyle and world of Power exchange. Many mistake this as a form of power exchange and confuse it with intimate relationships. Mentors can be on either side of the slash, or switches, as well as mentees. This discussion will focus on the dos and don'ts, the important roles they play, and how enriching a journey can become if this type of role is employed. Having been on both sides of this kind of interaction, we will discuss the nuances and misconceptions as well as the purpose and reward of being either a Mentor or Mentee
Writing the Sacred
in M/s
Eldest Saint
In M/s dynamics, not all service is physical. Some of it is written, sung, whispered, and remembered. This class explores the power of storytelling, ritual writing, contracts, and documentation in power exchange. From training logs and House charters to devotional poetry and personal myth, Saint guides participants through the living record of a dynamic. Whether you're the archivist preserving structure or the oracle dreaming the future, you are part of the mythmaking. Leave with tools to record your Leather legacy in both practical and poetic form."
Eldest Saint
In M/s dynamics, not all service is physical. Some of it is written, sung, whispered, and remembered. This class explores the power of storytelling, ritual writing, contracts, and documentation in power exchange. From training logs and House charters to devotional poetry and personal myth, Saint guides participants through the living record of a dynamic. Whether you're the archivist preserving structure or the oracle dreaming the future, you are part of the mythmaking. Leave with tools to record your Leather legacy in both practical and poetic form."
Moving Your Keys
to the Other Side
Eldest Saint
You’ve served for years. Or ruled for decades. And then one day… it shifts. This class explores what happens when someone transitions their public identity in the M/s community, from slave to Master, or Master to slave. How do you know it’s real? How do you explain it to others? How do you navigate stigma, shame, and the fear of being seen as “less real”? Most of us are not carved in stone. We are people. We grow. We break and rebuild. This class offers thoughtful guidance on rebranding, reclaiming, and ritualizing your transition with honesty and dignity. Saint leads a personal and cultural examination of what it means to change your keys, claim a new name, and begin again without erasing who you were.
Eldest Saint
You’ve served for years. Or ruled for decades. And then one day… it shifts. This class explores what happens when someone transitions their public identity in the M/s community, from slave to Master, or Master to slave. How do you know it’s real? How do you explain it to others? How do you navigate stigma, shame, and the fear of being seen as “less real”? Most of us are not carved in stone. We are people. We grow. We break and rebuild. This class offers thoughtful guidance on rebranding, reclaiming, and ritualizing your transition with honesty and dignity. Saint leads a personal and cultural examination of what it means to change your keys, claim a new name, and begin again without erasing who you were.
Scorch the Earth
& Salt the Land: Communication Tools for the Incendiary
and the Rest of Us
Goddess Indigo & slave Sill
Living an Authority Transfer Dynamics can involve unusual challenges on how to communicate when the discussion develops an emotional charge. Is it possible to have clear communication where all parties feel heard and recognized when authority imbalance is involved? Should one “step out of the dynamic” in order to fully express themselves? Join Goddess as we discuss multiple communication, de-escalation and repair techniques that are useful in creating a safe and effective space for resolving difficult situations.
Goddess Indigo & slave Sill
Living an Authority Transfer Dynamics can involve unusual challenges on how to communicate when the discussion develops an emotional charge. Is it possible to have clear communication where all parties feel heard and recognized when authority imbalance is involved? Should one “step out of the dynamic” in order to fully express themselves? Join Goddess as we discuss multiple communication, de-escalation and repair techniques that are useful in creating a safe and effective space for resolving difficult situations.
Onwards and
Upwards: Tools to Support Long-term Authority Imbalanced Dynamics
(A.I.D.) (Previously Refining the Fire)
Goddess Indigo & slave Sill
This advanced (301) workshop supports creating and maintaining FRE (Forever Relationship Energy). How to identify areas that need attention. How to identify and address resistance, reactance, reluctance and impedance. Identify where you are in your relationship cycle and ideas for intentional movement towards alignment and cohesion. Exposure to new concepts such as MASK- Authority Imbalanced Dynamic Glitch Analysis and key Ingredients for sustainability. A willing Leader and willing follower are an unstoppable force!
Goddess Indigo & slave Sill
This advanced (301) workshop supports creating and maintaining FRE (Forever Relationship Energy). How to identify areas that need attention. How to identify and address resistance, reactance, reluctance and impedance. Identify where you are in your relationship cycle and ideas for intentional movement towards alignment and cohesion. Exposure to new concepts such as MASK- Authority Imbalanced Dynamic Glitch Analysis and key Ingredients for sustainability. A willing Leader and willing follower are an unstoppable force!
A Higher
Authority: Ten Principles for Service
Henry & Justin Sabia-Tanis
Some of us were taught that the Prime Directive is to protect the property, but what comes after that? This workshop proposes ten principles for a service person’s life that empower us to meet a Master’s desires, stay true to ourselves and enlivened in our service. These principles can inform us in those times when our path seems unclear to us or when our Masters are unavailable to guide us. We’ll look at our own personal principles and consider whether there are principles that are more universal to the institution of consensual service.
Henry & Justin Sabia-Tanis
Some of us were taught that the Prime Directive is to protect the property, but what comes after that? This workshop proposes ten principles for a service person’s life that empower us to meet a Master’s desires, stay true to ourselves and enlivened in our service. These principles can inform us in those times when our path seems unclear to us or when our Masters are unavailable to guide us. We’ll look at our own personal principles and consider whether there are principles that are more universal to the institution of consensual service.
Self-Care; Why We
All Need It!
Lady O
Self-care is important to maintain a healthy relationship with yourself as it produces positive feelings and boosts your confidence and self-esteem. Self-care is necessary to remind yourself and others that you and your needs are important too. Learning how to establish a healthy work-life balance, stress management, and better health are vitally important for a positive outlook in your life.
Lady O
Self-care is important to maintain a healthy relationship with yourself as it produces positive feelings and boosts your confidence and self-esteem. Self-care is necessary to remind yourself and others that you and your needs are important too. Learning how to establish a healthy work-life balance, stress management, and better health are vitally important for a positive outlook in your life.
Young Leather:
Age, Experience, and Time
Master Bradford & PixieCat
When you hear “young leather” you probably think of a 18-30-year-old, who has just put on their first pair of boots and walked into their first bar or have somewhere between 0-5 years in the lifestyle. You also may think of the “children” who have no idea of the history, the past, the struggles and sacrifices made before their lifetime. However, I’m here to change that. We see a constant struggle in our community both nationally, and locally in bridging the age gap between the elders, and older generation of our community and the younger, new or upcoming Leatherfolk. In this class, you will learn the versatile group that ”young leather” can cover, as well as the similarities and differences, making it easier to talk, bond and grow with the younger generations. To create a community that is a safe haven for our alternative lifestyle, we must make sure we have raised individuals to carry it on.
Master Bradford & PixieCat
When you hear “young leather” you probably think of a 18-30-year-old, who has just put on their first pair of boots and walked into their first bar or have somewhere between 0-5 years in the lifestyle. You also may think of the “children” who have no idea of the history, the past, the struggles and sacrifices made before their lifetime. However, I’m here to change that. We see a constant struggle in our community both nationally, and locally in bridging the age gap between the elders, and older generation of our community and the younger, new or upcoming Leatherfolk. In this class, you will learn the versatile group that ”young leather” can cover, as well as the similarities and differences, making it easier to talk, bond and grow with the younger generations. To create a community that is a safe haven for our alternative lifestyle, we must make sure we have raised individuals to carry it on.
Non-Binary and
Transgender Dynamics: Understanding the Transition in Your
Dynamic
Master Bradford & PixieCat
Being in a dynamic with a person is complicated enough. Add in a transition for someone who is Female-to-Male or Male-to-Female, or someone who identifies on the non-binary spectrum, can make those already complicated ideas and scenarios, seem daunting. From medical challenges, sexual differences, and navigating the waves of changing in moods and comfort levels (both mentally and physically); we are here to help add some guiding points along the road of non-binary and transgender persons within a dynamic.
Master Bradford & PixieCat
Being in a dynamic with a person is complicated enough. Add in a transition for someone who is Female-to-Male or Male-to-Female, or someone who identifies on the non-binary spectrum, can make those already complicated ideas and scenarios, seem daunting. From medical challenges, sexual differences, and navigating the waves of changing in moods and comfort levels (both mentally and physically); we are here to help add some guiding points along the road of non-binary and transgender persons within a dynamic.
Community; Can’t
live with it, Can’t live without it
Master D & slave Passion
Why do some people need the community and others don’t? How has your view of the community changed over the past 5 years? Many aspects of people’s lives, where they live, where they work or even if they are going to work and what matters to them now has changed dramatically. With the current state of the country, many peopLe are confused and scared. Let's talk about whether community is still important to us and the challenges we have really functioning as a community.
Master D & slave Passion
Why do some people need the community and others don’t? How has your view of the community changed over the past 5 years? Many aspects of people’s lives, where they live, where they work or even if they are going to work and what matters to them now has changed dramatically. With the current state of the country, many peopLe are confused and scared. Let's talk about whether community is still important to us and the challenges we have really functioning as a community.
One Cover;
Bridging the Gap Between Generations of Leather
Master Daddy Zulu
The purpose of this class is to discuss some differences betweenThe Old Generation (TOG) and The Next Generation (TNG,) to discuss some of the myths of “Old Guard,” to share our common knowledge, to find tools to learn from each other to help make our community strong, and to explore and share resources.
Master Daddy Zulu
The purpose of this class is to discuss some differences betweenThe Old Generation (TOG) and The Next Generation (TNG,) to discuss some of the myths of “Old Guard,” to share our common knowledge, to find tools to learn from each other to help make our community strong, and to explore and share resources.
Age Differences:
The Challenges That Go With It
Master Don & Petra
Master Don and Petra are a Master/slave couple that have a fairly significant age difference between them. What type of challenges does a couple like this face? How do they deal with it? How have they dealt with illness and the natural progression of aging? How do they integrate their likes and dislikes that come from being 24 years apart? How do you form such a close bond with someone from a different generation? Master Don and Petra share how they do it and some of the struggles they’ve been through.
Master Don & Petra
Master Don and Petra are a Master/slave couple that have a fairly significant age difference between them. What type of challenges does a couple like this face? How do they deal with it? How have they dealt with illness and the natural progression of aging? How do they integrate their likes and dislikes that come from being 24 years apart? How do you form such a close bond with someone from a different generation? Master Don and Petra share how they do it and some of the struggles they’ve been through.
The Bedrock of an
M/s relationship
Master Don & Petra
There are certain qualities within an M/s relationship that form the bedrock of that relationship. The bedrock is basically the foundation of what supports a relationship and continues ;to make it strong by giving it a sound basis from which to grow and flourish. Join Master Don and Petra as they discuss what makes up the bedrock of their Ms relationship and how that relationship has lasted almost 30 years.
Master Don & Petra
There are certain qualities within an M/s relationship that form the bedrock of that relationship. The bedrock is basically the foundation of what supports a relationship and continues ;to make it strong by giving it a sound basis from which to grow and flourish. Join Master Don and Petra as they discuss what makes up the bedrock of their Ms relationship and how that relationship has lasted almost 30 years.
Failing
Gracefully, v2.0
Master IceDog & slave Ravyn
We are often terrified at the notion of failing. Society tells us that being a failure sucks. Over and over, we see reaffirmations of these false narratives. In reality, failure can, and often does, lead to success and generally favorable outcomes. The difference is how one reacts to failures and mistakes, intentional and unintentional, how to make things right, accepting our limitations, and working through them. This class takes us through some of our “failures,” past (v1.0) and present (v2.0), to help show how they can be graceful.
Master IceDog & slave Ravyn
We are often terrified at the notion of failing. Society tells us that being a failure sucks. Over and over, we see reaffirmations of these false narratives. In reality, failure can, and often does, lead to success and generally favorable outcomes. The difference is how one reacts to failures and mistakes, intentional and unintentional, how to make things right, accepting our limitations, and working through them. This class takes us through some of our “failures,” past (v1.0) and present (v2.0), to help show how they can be graceful.
When the
Unexpected Happens
Master James & Miss Wendy
Some war stories and thought-provoking introspection on how you deal with the unexpected. Health issues, immobility, mortality, unemployment? Let’s talk about how to be prepared for the things that can happen in life.
Master James & Miss Wendy
Some war stories and thought-provoking introspection on how you deal with the unexpected. Health issues, immobility, mortality, unemployment? Let’s talk about how to be prepared for the things that can happen in life.
Leather Activism;
An Understanding of Modern Activism (1955-present) and it’s
Purpose Within the Leather Community
Master Daddy Zulu
Master Daddy Zulu
- Definition of Activism (Brief Lecture)
- A Brief History of Modern Civil Rights (Timeline)
- A Brief History of Modern Gay Rights (Timeline)
- A Brief History of Modern Leather/BDSM (Timeline)
- Why Activism is Important for Leatherfolk (Lecture)
- Resources for Activism
Structural
Integrity; Best Practices and Pitfalls
in M/s Protocol Design
Master Dante Amor with Slave Gaia, Slave Sarah and Slave Coco
Structural Integrity; Best Practices and Pitfalls in M/s Protocol Design Rules, rituals, and protocols provide the structural pillars which define most authority dynamics. While some are common and widely practiced, no two relationships are alike and the same holds true of individual dynamic parameters. In their two decades of practicing M/s, members of House Amor have learned that not all rules, rituals, and protocols are created equal. In this class we’ll dig deep into the nuance of designing, implementing, adapting, and and even discarding them at times. Master Dante will share the concept of his Protocol Priority Matrix. We’ll look at how to assess the emotional, psychological, and practical impact of how any given rule, ritual, or protocol is designed and implemented. We’ll explore recipes for success and failure, dispel a few sacred cows, and offer new perspectives on the way these invaluable tools support and inform our dynamics.
Master Dante Amor with Slave Gaia, Slave Sarah and Slave Coco
Structural Integrity; Best Practices and Pitfalls in M/s Protocol Design Rules, rituals, and protocols provide the structural pillars which define most authority dynamics. While some are common and widely practiced, no two relationships are alike and the same holds true of individual dynamic parameters. In their two decades of practicing M/s, members of House Amor have learned that not all rules, rituals, and protocols are created equal. In this class we’ll dig deep into the nuance of designing, implementing, adapting, and and even discarding them at times. Master Dante will share the concept of his Protocol Priority Matrix. We’ll look at how to assess the emotional, psychological, and practical impact of how any given rule, ritual, or protocol is designed and implemented. We’ll explore recipes for success and failure, dispel a few sacred cows, and offer new perspectives on the way these invaluable tools support and inform our dynamics.
Absolutes and
Absolution; Discipline, Punishment,
Shame, and Forgiveness in M/s Dynamics
Master Dante Amor with Slave Gaia, Slave Sarah and Slave Coco
Punishment is a polarizing topic in M/s circles. For some it's a key pillar of the authority dynamic, while others point to extensive psychology research which outlines why it's counterproductive. We'll explore the difference between correction, punishment, and discipline. We'll look at how apology, forgiveness, absolution, and ritual can be potent tools at those times when actions, or the lack thereof, may warrant intentional consequences for the greater good of our dynamics. We'll also look at course correction and re-alignment in M/s when punishment plays no part.
Master Dante Amor with Slave Gaia, Slave Sarah and Slave Coco
Punishment is a polarizing topic in M/s circles. For some it's a key pillar of the authority dynamic, while others point to extensive psychology research which outlines why it's counterproductive. We'll explore the difference between correction, punishment, and discipline. We'll look at how apology, forgiveness, absolution, and ritual can be potent tools at those times when actions, or the lack thereof, may warrant intentional consequences for the greater good of our dynamics. We'll also look at course correction and re-alignment in M/s when punishment plays no part.
Masters in
Service-
Master Jim
Service is at the heart of our dynamics and our community. Let's take a look at what service can look like from the Left side of the slash. In this interactive discussion, Master Jim will share some of his personal journey into Mastery, and some of the different ways he has embraced being a "Master in service". Come prepared to share your experiences on this topic from both sides of the slash.
Master Jim
Service is at the heart of our dynamics and our community. Let's take a look at what service can look like from the Left side of the slash. In this interactive discussion, Master Jim will share some of his personal journey into Mastery, and some of the different ways he has embraced being a "Master in service". Come prepared to share your experiences on this topic from both sides of the slash.
Risking it All:
Transitioning an Egalitarian
Relationship to M/s
Master Jim & slave Dee
Even if you know your current relationship has elements of an authority exchange, how do you transition a long term egalitarian relationship to an intentional authority exchange? MasterJim and dee describe the value of understanding who they already were in their marriage to understand better how to transition to an authority exchange. They will discuss the process, challenges faced, and lessons learned in the steps towards creating their new dynamic
Master Jim & slave Dee
Even if you know your current relationship has elements of an authority exchange, how do you transition a long term egalitarian relationship to an intentional authority exchange? MasterJim and dee describe the value of understanding who they already were in their marriage to understand better how to transition to an authority exchange. They will discuss the process, challenges faced, and lessons learned in the steps towards creating their new dynamic
Navigating Mental
Health Challenges within an M/s dynamic
Master Penguin & slave Ginna
Does having mental health challenges automatically make it so that you cannot be in a healthy M/s dynamic? Not necessarily. In this discussion, we hope to show you tools to help you navigate your M/s dynamic despite mental health diagnoses. Autism, PTSD, ADHD, Trauma, Depression, and more can make navigation in the dynamic trickier. We will be discussing ways to improve your relationship while working toward better mental health. Especially in these challenging times, daily stressors can make things even more difficult. We will be also discussing expectations for coping with mental illnesses and greater awareness about what behaviors can be managed within a diagnosis as well as how we perceive mental health differently as Masters and slaves.
Master Penguin & slave Ginna
Does having mental health challenges automatically make it so that you cannot be in a healthy M/s dynamic? Not necessarily. In this discussion, we hope to show you tools to help you navigate your M/s dynamic despite mental health diagnoses. Autism, PTSD, ADHD, Trauma, Depression, and more can make navigation in the dynamic trickier. We will be discussing ways to improve your relationship while working toward better mental health. Especially in these challenging times, daily stressors can make things even more difficult. We will be also discussing expectations for coping with mental illnesses and greater awareness about what behaviors can be managed within a diagnosis as well as how we perceive mental health differently as Masters and slaves.
Yoga Pants &
Hockey Dad: Real Life M/s
Master Penguin & slave Ginna
We all have the fantasy picture of what the perfect Power Exchange relationship looks like, with all the leather and chains. But when real life comes calling, the “real” dynamic tends to look a lot different. We discuss ways to ensure that your dynamics can still be fulfilling when wearing yoga pants instead of skimpy leather outfits. With real life responsibilities like taking kids to scouts or band practice, how can the hockey dad and yoga pants mom make time to feed the dynamic that we envisioned in the beginning?
Master Penguin & slave Ginna
We all have the fantasy picture of what the perfect Power Exchange relationship looks like, with all the leather and chains. But when real life comes calling, the “real” dynamic tends to look a lot different. We discuss ways to ensure that your dynamics can still be fulfilling when wearing yoga pants instead of skimpy leather outfits. With real life responsibilities like taking kids to scouts or band practice, how can the hockey dad and yoga pants mom make time to feed the dynamic that we envisioned in the beginning?
We Belong Here;
Inclusivity in the M/s Community
Master RetroBella & slave boydrake
Too often we hear about members of the Ms community not being welcome at conferences, events, meetings, or play spaces due to their ethnicity, sexual orientation, race, gender identity, socioeconomic status. We are a family and we need to support others. There is hope that we can find ways to create inclusivity at our events. Offering diverse classes,gender neutral bathrooms, safety measures so that everyone feels safe at an event, and so much more. We can work together to create a community where everyone feels seen, heard and respected.
Master RetroBella & slave boydrake
Too often we hear about members of the Ms community not being welcome at conferences, events, meetings, or play spaces due to their ethnicity, sexual orientation, race, gender identity, socioeconomic status. We are a family and we need to support others. There is hope that we can find ways to create inclusivity at our events. Offering diverse classes,gender neutral bathrooms, safety measures so that everyone feels safe at an event, and so much more. We can work together to create a community where everyone feels seen, heard and respected.
Embracing the
Master/slave You Are
Master RetroBella & slave boydrake
As Masters, we often focus on the mechanics of leading our dynamics, but just as crucial is embracing the leader we are within. This class will explore how our identity, values, and personal experiences influence and shape our unique leadership style in Master/slave dynamics. Through reflective exercises, group discussions, and actionable tools, you’ll gain clarity on what it means to lead authentically on your own terms, not by imitating someone else’s idea of what a Master should be. Whether you’re just beginning your journey or have years of experience, this class provides a space to confidently embrace your leadership role with pride."
Master RetroBella & slave boydrake
As Masters, we often focus on the mechanics of leading our dynamics, but just as crucial is embracing the leader we are within. This class will explore how our identity, values, and personal experiences influence and shape our unique leadership style in Master/slave dynamics. Through reflective exercises, group discussions, and actionable tools, you’ll gain clarity on what it means to lead authentically on your own terms, not by imitating someone else’s idea of what a Master should be. Whether you’re just beginning your journey or have years of experience, this class provides a space to confidently embrace your leadership role with pride."
Holding It
Together Over The Distance
Master Robert & slave Megan
“I miss you,” isn’t the glue that keeps our long-distance [M/s D/s] together as nicely as we might hope. Let’s talk about tools and coping mechanisms for maintaining relationships and dynamics. Time, distance, and life challenges are when [M/s D/s] becomes secondary. How do we intentionally keep us together when life is trying to tear us apart
Master Robert & slave Megan
“I miss you,” isn’t the glue that keeps our long-distance [M/s D/s] together as nicely as we might hope. Let’s talk about tools and coping mechanisms for maintaining relationships and dynamics. Time, distance, and life challenges are when [M/s D/s] becomes secondary. How do we intentionally keep us together when life is trying to tear us apart
Imposter
Syndrome-
Master SirTee & little kitsune
Whether new or experienced, imposter syndrome can, at times, undermine our beliefs, sense of self, attitudes, and personal confidence (in our abilities, skills, knowledge, etc.). This class is a deep dive into the subversive internal voice of self-doubt and explores how, when left unchecked, it can create real challenges to our identities and relationships - especially when we bring it into our dynamics. Join us as we explore imposter syndrome - from both sides of the slash; we will review strategies for recognizing it, potential sources, the impact on the self and the dynamic, and approaches to address imposter syndrome.
Master SirTee & little kitsune
Whether new or experienced, imposter syndrome can, at times, undermine our beliefs, sense of self, attitudes, and personal confidence (in our abilities, skills, knowledge, etc.). This class is a deep dive into the subversive internal voice of self-doubt and explores how, when left unchecked, it can create real challenges to our identities and relationships - especially when we bring it into our dynamics. Join us as we explore imposter syndrome - from both sides of the slash; we will review strategies for recognizing it, potential sources, the impact on the self and the dynamic, and approaches to address imposter syndrome.
Navigating
Resistance in an M/s and Power Exchange Dynamics
Master Sir Tee & little kitsune
Whether in a Master/slave, long term, or new Dynamic, conscious or subconscious resistance to the agreed terms of the Dynamic can periodically appear - in behaviours, attitudes, or the follow through on expectations. On the surface it can appear only the s side of the slash can be resistant; however, resistance can manifest for either side of the slash at different points in a Dynamic. Left unchecked and unrecognized, it has the potential to undermine the strongest of Dynamics. This class explores resistance, and how to identify when this is happening in both ourselves and our persons. Sharing from our 28 years living in a long-term Dynamic, we will delve into strategies to identify the source and navigate the impact internal or external factors have on our Dynamics. It is Understanding resistance and developing strategies to mitigate the impact can help overcome misunderstandings, provide opportunities for growth, and build a Dynamic for longevity.
Master Sir Tee & little kitsune
Whether in a Master/slave, long term, or new Dynamic, conscious or subconscious resistance to the agreed terms of the Dynamic can periodically appear - in behaviours, attitudes, or the follow through on expectations. On the surface it can appear only the s side of the slash can be resistant; however, resistance can manifest for either side of the slash at different points in a Dynamic. Left unchecked and unrecognized, it has the potential to undermine the strongest of Dynamics. This class explores resistance, and how to identify when this is happening in both ourselves and our persons. Sharing from our 28 years living in a long-term Dynamic, we will delve into strategies to identify the source and navigate the impact internal or external factors have on our Dynamics. It is Understanding resistance and developing strategies to mitigate the impact can help overcome misunderstandings, provide opportunities for growth, and build a Dynamic for longevity.
Transparent
Mastery; From Projection to Reflection
Master Skip
Because, as the Talmud teaches, “We don’t see things as they are, we see things as we are,” relationships of all types are often rife with projection. If such projection goes unrecognized and unaddressed, then alienation, isolation and, ultimately, dissolution of the relationship is the result. In the case of a Master/slave relationship, the slave projects his or her ideas, feelings and attitudes regarding authority figures onto the Master, and if that projection includes anger, fear, blame or guilt, the toll it takes on both the relationship and the Master’s self-esteem can be tremendous. In this enlightening presentation, Master Skip will explore the underlying psycho-spiritual dynamics that make it possible for a Master to stand in the middle of a slave’s projection without moving, neither accepting the projection nor rejecting it and, in doing so, facilitate the slave’s awareness of the projection, the Master’s own sense of competency, and the realization of the true nature of the relationship for them both.
Master Skip
Because, as the Talmud teaches, “We don’t see things as they are, we see things as we are,” relationships of all types are often rife with projection. If such projection goes unrecognized and unaddressed, then alienation, isolation and, ultimately, dissolution of the relationship is the result. In the case of a Master/slave relationship, the slave projects his or her ideas, feelings and attitudes regarding authority figures onto the Master, and if that projection includes anger, fear, blame or guilt, the toll it takes on both the relationship and the Master’s self-esteem can be tremendous. In this enlightening presentation, Master Skip will explore the underlying psycho-spiritual dynamics that make it possible for a Master to stand in the middle of a slave’s projection without moving, neither accepting the projection nor rejecting it and, in doing so, facilitate the slave’s awareness of the projection, the Master’s own sense of competency, and the realization of the true nature of the relationship for them both.
Learning Tips From
a Leather Grandpa
Master Taino
During his quarter-century journey as a Master, the experiences of Master Taíno have been many and have shaped his Mastery, his philosophy and his teachings. In this class, Master Taíno will address several aspects or the Master/slave relationships that he has learned throughout the years and that he considers essential to better our M/s relationships. Join us to pick up the wisdom of Master Taíno, now named as a Leather Grandpa.
Master Taino
During his quarter-century journey as a Master, the experiences of Master Taíno have been many and have shaped his Mastery, his philosophy and his teachings. In this class, Master Taíno will address several aspects or the Master/slave relationships that he has learned throughout the years and that he considers essential to better our M/s relationships. Join us to pick up the wisdom of Master Taíno, now named as a Leather Grandpa.
The Generation
Gap: Elders and the New Generations
Master Taino
Kinky baby boomers are now old and need to pass the torch to the younger generations. What is the responsibility of the elders? What should be the approach of the newbies? Master Taíno has a lot of experience working and mentoring young folks and will share his ideas and experiences on the topic. He will lead a discussion on how to make different generations to work together, and how the new generations can live their kinks and M/s relationships their way and contribute to our community.
Master Taino
Kinky baby boomers are now old and need to pass the torch to the younger generations. What is the responsibility of the elders? What should be the approach of the newbies? Master Taíno has a lot of experience working and mentoring young folks and will share his ideas and experiences on the topic. He will lead a discussion on how to make different generations to work together, and how the new generations can live their kinks and M/s relationships their way and contribute to our community.
Strength in
Change: Exploring Perimenopause and Partner Dynamics
Mister Blue & Mrs. BlueFrost
Join us for a transformative session that explores the powerful intersection of perimenopause and relationship dynamics. This class offers essential insights, practical strategies, and emotional support to help navigate this pivotal life stage. Discover how hormonal shifts can impact communication, intimacy, and (un)balance within partnerships, and learn tools to foster deeper connection, resilience, and mutual growth. Ideal for anyone seeking deeper insight into the intersection of personal transformation and relationship dynamics.
Mister Blue & Mrs. BlueFrost
Join us for a transformative session that explores the powerful intersection of perimenopause and relationship dynamics. This class offers essential insights, practical strategies, and emotional support to help navigate this pivotal life stage. Discover how hormonal shifts can impact communication, intimacy, and (un)balance within partnerships, and learn tools to foster deeper connection, resilience, and mutual growth. Ideal for anyone seeking deeper insight into the intersection of personal transformation and relationship dynamics.
Women in Mastery -
Life Skills
Ms DDom
What is Women in Mastery, and is revisiting or learning Life Skills really important? Yes, it is important! This empowering class is designed for women on the Left-side of the slash to explore essential life skills that foster personal mastery and well-being. We will share perspectives and discuss areas such as effective communication, emotional intelligence, goal setting, and self-care, all in support of a healthier lifestyle journey. Through reflective exercises, attendees will identify their strengths, skills, and challenges while sharing experiences to learn from one another. We will discuss practical strategies for navigating life's complexities (vanilla and lifestyle intertwined) and find tools to stay resilient and confident on our journey. Can we talk, celebrate our journeys, and cultivate the skills needed to master lifestyle challenges together?
Ms DDom
What is Women in Mastery, and is revisiting or learning Life Skills really important? Yes, it is important! This empowering class is designed for women on the Left-side of the slash to explore essential life skills that foster personal mastery and well-being. We will share perspectives and discuss areas such as effective communication, emotional intelligence, goal setting, and self-care, all in support of a healthier lifestyle journey. Through reflective exercises, attendees will identify their strengths, skills, and challenges while sharing experiences to learn from one another. We will discuss practical strategies for navigating life's complexities (vanilla and lifestyle intertwined) and find tools to stay resilient and confident on our journey. Can we talk, celebrate our journeys, and cultivate the skills needed to master lifestyle challenges together?
Hormones &
Handcuffs: The Intersection of Trans Identity and Alternate
Lifestyles-
Laura A. Jacobs, LCSW-R
Transgender and gender nonbinary people have nontraditional relationships with their bodies, and it is imperative that members of the kink, BDSM, and M/s members understand who we are and the motivations that bring us to these worlds. This lecture examines the intersection between transgender identities and alternate lifestyles as well as how these lifestyles seem perfectly suited to offer such individuals access to pleasurable forms of sexual expression that bypass – and sometimes subvert – the difficulties often faced by trans and gender nonbinary people otherwise, also arguing that these nontraditional forms of sexual expression are acts of political resistance that facilitate an ongoing examination of the human experience.
Laura A. Jacobs, LCSW-R
Transgender and gender nonbinary people have nontraditional relationships with their bodies, and it is imperative that members of the kink, BDSM, and M/s members understand who we are and the motivations that bring us to these worlds. This lecture examines the intersection between transgender identities and alternate lifestyles as well as how these lifestyles seem perfectly suited to offer such individuals access to pleasurable forms of sexual expression that bypass – and sometimes subvert – the difficulties often faced by trans and gender nonbinary people otherwise, also arguing that these nontraditional forms of sexual expression are acts of political resistance that facilitate an ongoing examination of the human experience.
What is M/s?
Demystifying the Dynamic
Neko & koneko
Curious about Master/slave relationships but unsure where to start? This class unpacks the fundamentals of 24/7 power exchange, exploring what makes it different from other dynamics, common myths, and how to determine if this path is right for you. Ideal for those taking their first steps into the world of consensual authority exchange. Level: Beginner
Neko & koneko
Curious about Master/slave relationships but unsure where to start? This class unpacks the fundamentals of 24/7 power exchange, exploring what makes it different from other dynamics, common myths, and how to determine if this path is right for you. Ideal for those taking their first steps into the world of consensual authority exchange. Level: Beginner
Beyond Obedience:
Cultivating Emotional Connection in M/s Dynamics
Neko & koneko
Power exchange goes beyond rules and protocols—it thrives on emotional connection. This class explores how to balance authority with intimacy, recognize and meet emotional needs, and incorporate rituals that reinforce trust and deepen your bond. You’ll gain tools to enhance the emotional richness of your M/s relationship. Level: Intermediate
Neko & koneko
Power exchange goes beyond rules and protocols—it thrives on emotional connection. This class explores how to balance authority with intimacy, recognize and meet emotional needs, and incorporate rituals that reinforce trust and deepen your bond. You’ll gain tools to enhance the emotional richness of your M/s relationship. Level: Intermediate
Protocols for
Individuals with Mental Health Considerations in M/s or TPE
Dynamics
PB Cain & V Cain
This class is intended for those seeking to develop protocols that support and accommodate mental health challenges. We will concentrate on crisis management, consent models, and effective communication, with mental health as a priority. We will also discuss how to create adaptive protocols that promote stability, trust, and emotional well-being with a mental health focus, while preserving the integrity of Total Power Exchanges or M/s Dynamics.
PB Cain & V Cain
This class is intended for those seeking to develop protocols that support and accommodate mental health challenges. We will concentrate on crisis management, consent models, and effective communication, with mental health as a priority. We will also discuss how to create adaptive protocols that promote stability, trust, and emotional well-being with a mental health focus, while preserving the integrity of Total Power Exchanges or M/s Dynamics.
Incorporating a
CEO/COO Mindset Into Our M/s Dynamic
PB Cain & V Cain
In this class we discuss the parallels of a M/s Dynamic compared to a CEO/coo business template. Together we will explore how roles compare to each other by defining hierarchy and responsibilities of each. We will talk about trust and interdependence through a foundation based on empowered communication. Finally, we will recognize the differences between consensual, intimate relationships vs. professional structures and how to pull from each to enhance your own dynamic.
PB Cain & V Cain
In this class we discuss the parallels of a M/s Dynamic compared to a CEO/coo business template. Together we will explore how roles compare to each other by defining hierarchy and responsibilities of each. We will talk about trust and interdependence through a foundation based on empowered communication. Finally, we will recognize the differences between consensual, intimate relationships vs. professional structures and how to pull from each to enhance your own dynamic.
Well?!.. My Power
is a gift; Come and Take It!
Master Malcolm and slave Farrah
You’ve met the person of your dreams. You crave deep connection and power exchange—but every few months, you're stuck in the same fight over control. One of you won't take it. The other won't give it. Why does this keep happening? In this workshop, we go far beyond surface-level dynamics to explore the psychology, communication patterns, and behavioral cycles that create recurring power struggles in Power Exchange (PE) relationships. Using a blend of research, and personal stories we break down the different components of Power Exchange and how missteps in each domain can destabilize even the most consensual dynamics. You'll learn how to identify and correct common errors in leadership, surrender, collaboration, and protocol enforcement. We will help you stop having the same conflict on repeat—and instead, build a dynamic grounded in clarity, collaboration, and consent.
Master Malcolm and slave Farrah
You’ve met the person of your dreams. You crave deep connection and power exchange—but every few months, you're stuck in the same fight over control. One of you won't take it. The other won't give it. Why does this keep happening? In this workshop, we go far beyond surface-level dynamics to explore the psychology, communication patterns, and behavioral cycles that create recurring power struggles in Power Exchange (PE) relationships. Using a blend of research, and personal stories we break down the different components of Power Exchange and how missteps in each domain can destabilize even the most consensual dynamics. You'll learn how to identify and correct common errors in leadership, surrender, collaboration, and protocol enforcement. We will help you stop having the same conflict on repeat—and instead, build a dynamic grounded in clarity, collaboration, and consent.
Codependency in
Power Exchange
Master Malcolm and slave Farrah
This thought-provoking presentation explores codependency in Power Exchange and kink. Codependency is a complex pattern of interaction that can occur in any type of relationship, but due to the power imbalance in Power Exchange and cultural context of the kink community, can be particularly difficult to navigate. Drawing on current research and clinical experience this workshop guides attendees through the manifestation and consequences of codependence in Power Exchange and kink dynamics including; examination of key characteristics of codependent behavior, strategies for addressing codependent patterns, and the impact of codependency on consent and individual mental health. This presentation is designed for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of the intricacies of Power Exchange relationships, as well as individuals struggling with codependency or a history of trauma and abuse. Whether you are new to the kink community or a seasoned veteran, this presentation provides valuable insight on navigating the challenging terrain of service, caretaking, and codependency in kink and Power Exchange.
Master Malcolm and slave Farrah
This thought-provoking presentation explores codependency in Power Exchange and kink. Codependency is a complex pattern of interaction that can occur in any type of relationship, but due to the power imbalance in Power Exchange and cultural context of the kink community, can be particularly difficult to navigate. Drawing on current research and clinical experience this workshop guides attendees through the manifestation and consequences of codependence in Power Exchange and kink dynamics including; examination of key characteristics of codependent behavior, strategies for addressing codependent patterns, and the impact of codependency on consent and individual mental health. This presentation is designed for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of the intricacies of Power Exchange relationships, as well as individuals struggling with codependency or a history of trauma and abuse. Whether you are new to the kink community or a seasoned veteran, this presentation provides valuable insight on navigating the challenging terrain of service, caretaking, and codependency in kink and Power Exchange.
Neurodiversity in
the Community
Sir North & slave Akasha
In this class, Sir North, who is diagnosed with ADHD, and slave Akasha, who is diagnosed with autism, will share their personal experiences and insights on navigating neurodiversity within a Master/slave dynamic and within the larger context of WIITWD. Participants will have the opportunity to explore the intersection of autism and ADHD in the context of power exchange dynamics and relationships, common challenges faced by individuals with these conditions, the social contracts inside and outside of the community and how neurodiverse folx navigate those social contracts, as well as strategies for effective communication, structure, and support within power exchange relationships. This class aims to foster a greater understanding and acceptance of neurodiversity in the M/s and WIITWD community and provide practical tools for creating more inclusive and supportive dynamics.
Sir North & slave Akasha
In this class, Sir North, who is diagnosed with ADHD, and slave Akasha, who is diagnosed with autism, will share their personal experiences and insights on navigating neurodiversity within a Master/slave dynamic and within the larger context of WIITWD. Participants will have the opportunity to explore the intersection of autism and ADHD in the context of power exchange dynamics and relationships, common challenges faced by individuals with these conditions, the social contracts inside and outside of the community and how neurodiverse folx navigate those social contracts, as well as strategies for effective communication, structure, and support within power exchange relationships. This class aims to foster a greater understanding and acceptance of neurodiversity in the M/s and WIITWD community and provide practical tools for creating more inclusive and supportive dynamics.
Finding Your
Voice
Slave Charles
This class will provide guidelines for developing a new presentation and how to hone a current one. We will consider what your presentation goal is and design a presentation to best reach your audience.
Slave Charles
This class will provide guidelines for developing a new presentation and how to hone a current one. We will consider what your presentation goal is and design a presentation to best reach your audience.
Unreasonable
Hospitality and Magical Service
slave Cita
In Unreasonable Hospitality by Will Guidara, there is a core notion that ordinary experiences can be transformed into extraordinary ones by going above and beyond with sincere, thoughtful service that stems from intentional, heartfelt acts. When applied to an M/s relationship, “unreasonable hospitality” becomes a powerful expression of devotion and attentiveness that deepens trust, appreciation, and feeling valued. Prioritizing mindfulness, personalization, and generosity, while approaching service with genuine care, creativity, and thoughtful touches, the slave can elevate everyday moments into magical ones of authentic connection. Ultimately, “unreasonable hospitality” isn’t about extravagance—it’s about making someone feel they are truly seen and that they matter, which is a powerful gift in any relationship. Of course, the Master’s manner of receiving service is an equally important expression of intention. Come ready to discuss service from either side of the slash and share ideas on how we can elevate service to create moments of magic in meaningful and delightful ways.
slave Cita
In Unreasonable Hospitality by Will Guidara, there is a core notion that ordinary experiences can be transformed into extraordinary ones by going above and beyond with sincere, thoughtful service that stems from intentional, heartfelt acts. When applied to an M/s relationship, “unreasonable hospitality” becomes a powerful expression of devotion and attentiveness that deepens trust, appreciation, and feeling valued. Prioritizing mindfulness, personalization, and generosity, while approaching service with genuine care, creativity, and thoughtful touches, the slave can elevate everyday moments into magical ones of authentic connection. Ultimately, “unreasonable hospitality” isn’t about extravagance—it’s about making someone feel they are truly seen and that they matter, which is a powerful gift in any relationship. Of course, the Master’s manner of receiving service is an equally important expression of intention. Come ready to discuss service from either side of the slash and share ideas on how we can elevate service to create moments of magic in meaningful and delightful ways.
Rediscovering the
Slave Heart; Rekindling Joy in Service in Longer-Term
Dynamics
Slave Gaia Amor with Master Dante
We spend so much time talking about building dynamics, but what happens when one feels they’ve lost touch with their slave heart? Join us for a vulnerable discussion about slave Gaia’s journey from finding herself frustrated, angry, ashamed and even resenting service many years in, to discovering new dimensions of surrender and the place she always needed to be in the first place. What happens when you have competing needs? Wanting to be respected, capable, and strong but underlying all of those voices is a deep need to be a joyfully surrendered doormat? How does one justify fighting passionately for societal equity while begging for utter personal objectification and inequity? Join us as we share the journey back to center, where she found her slave heart beating stronger than ever, and how reconciling these questions has dramatically changed the shape of our lives for the better.
Slave Gaia Amor with Master Dante
We spend so much time talking about building dynamics, but what happens when one feels they’ve lost touch with their slave heart? Join us for a vulnerable discussion about slave Gaia’s journey from finding herself frustrated, angry, ashamed and even resenting service many years in, to discovering new dimensions of surrender and the place she always needed to be in the first place. What happens when you have competing needs? Wanting to be respected, capable, and strong but underlying all of those voices is a deep need to be a joyfully surrendered doormat? How does one justify fighting passionately for societal equity while begging for utter personal objectification and inequity? Join us as we share the journey back to center, where she found her slave heart beating stronger than ever, and how reconciling these questions has dramatically changed the shape of our lives for the better.
I Choose to Serve;
A Dominant Personality in a Slave?
Slave Raven R
Does the person to the right of the slash have to have a submissive personality? How can someone with a dominant personality thrive in a service role? The answers are not always as obvious as it would seem. This class looks at how it can work and work well for everyone involved.
Slave Raven R
Does the person to the right of the slash have to have a submissive personality? How can someone with a dominant personality thrive in a service role? The answers are not always as obvious as it would seem. This class looks at how it can work and work well for everyone involved.
Shadow Tango; The
Soul Dance of Master and slave
Slave Rick
A Master/slave relationship is a dance of souls, each drawing the other into a ferocious embrace that facilitates healing, growth and ultimately egoic surrender in both the Master and the slave. In this presentation you are invited to dialogue with slave Rick as he shares some thought provoking realizations derived from his 25+ year relationship with his Master, and from his experiences as a practicing psychotherapist within the BDSM community (www.KinkTherapistLosAngeles.com), that will assist you in recognizing the enticing rhythms of your own particular D/s dance.
Slave Rick
A Master/slave relationship is a dance of souls, each drawing the other into a ferocious embrace that facilitates healing, growth and ultimately egoic surrender in both the Master and the slave. In this presentation you are invited to dialogue with slave Rick as he shares some thought provoking realizations derived from his 25+ year relationship with his Master, and from his experiences as a practicing psychotherapist within the BDSM community (www.KinkTherapistLosAngeles.com), that will assist you in recognizing the enticing rhythms of your own particular D/s dance.
slaves - How Much
is Too Much?
Tomo
As slaves, we often strive to align ourselves with the will of another. But over time, the line between surrender and self-sacrifice can blur, and when it does, the impact can be lasting. In this class, we'll explore what it means to surrender with intention, and how to recognize when we may be giving beyond what's healthy, sustainable, or aligned with our core self. We'll discuss how to stay rooted in personal power and identity while offering deep and meaningful service, and how to recognize the difference between surrender that nourishes and surrender that depletes. Together, we'll reflect on questions like: Where is your line? What does "too much" feel like in your body, your mind, or your heart? How do we course-correct when we've given past our limits? Whether you're new to authority exchange or have lived in deep dynamic for years, you're invited into a thoughtful and honest conversation about the power of saying yes, and the importance of knowing when to say no. To provide a safe and open space for reflection, this class is limited to those who serve in hierarchical relationships.
Tomo
As slaves, we often strive to align ourselves with the will of another. But over time, the line between surrender and self-sacrifice can blur, and when it does, the impact can be lasting. In this class, we'll explore what it means to surrender with intention, and how to recognize when we may be giving beyond what's healthy, sustainable, or aligned with our core self. We'll discuss how to stay rooted in personal power and identity while offering deep and meaningful service, and how to recognize the difference between surrender that nourishes and surrender that depletes. Together, we'll reflect on questions like: Where is your line? What does "too much" feel like in your body, your mind, or your heart? How do we course-correct when we've given past our limits? Whether you're new to authority exchange or have lived in deep dynamic for years, you're invited into a thoughtful and honest conversation about the power of saying yes, and the importance of knowing when to say no. To provide a safe and open space for reflection, this class is limited to those who serve in hierarchical relationships.
Grounding,
Centering, and Connecting in Authority Exchange Relationships
Tomo
In martial arts, principles like center, balance, alignment, and connection are essential for effective, grounded technique. These same principles can offer powerful insight into authority exchange relationships, especially when applied to how we lead, serve, and stay present through challenge. In this class, Tomo draws on decades of martial arts training and experience in Authority Exchange relationships to explore how we can strengthen our connection and alignment from both sides of the dynamic. We'll look at how staying grounded, emotionally, mentally, and energetically, supports a more intentional exchange of power, even during difficult or uncertain times. Together, we'll examine alignment from both perspectives, explore how the Leader can guide the dynamic with clarity and purpose, and how the follower can navigate obstacles and reconnect with their Master's path with grace and integrity. This class is an invitation to deepen your practice of authority exchange through conscious presence, mutual alignment, and a shared center. All who are interested in or engage in Authority Exchange are welcome.
Tomo
In martial arts, principles like center, balance, alignment, and connection are essential for effective, grounded technique. These same principles can offer powerful insight into authority exchange relationships, especially when applied to how we lead, serve, and stay present through challenge. In this class, Tomo draws on decades of martial arts training and experience in Authority Exchange relationships to explore how we can strengthen our connection and alignment from both sides of the dynamic. We'll look at how staying grounded, emotionally, mentally, and energetically, supports a more intentional exchange of power, even during difficult or uncertain times. Together, we'll examine alignment from both perspectives, explore how the Leader can guide the dynamic with clarity and purpose, and how the follower can navigate obstacles and reconnect with their Master's path with grace and integrity. This class is an invitation to deepen your practice of authority exchange through conscious presence, mutual alignment, and a shared center. All who are interested in or engage in Authority Exchange are welcome.
Tools for Changing
Behavior
slaveboy Joshua
Changing behavior is hard! This class will cover techniques and strategies for making lasting changes to our own behavior, and how we can guide and support others in changing their behaviors, regardless of your relationship role (master or slave or something else, solo or partnered). How do we make protocols and habits stick? How do we figure out what roles and approaches work best for us when giving or receiving support in making difficult changes? How can we overcome resistance to change? This workshop will provide tools to help you make sustainable changes to achieve your goals, whether in your M/s relationships, or in your daily life.
slaveboy Joshua
Changing behavior is hard! This class will cover techniques and strategies for making lasting changes to our own behavior, and how we can guide and support others in changing their behaviors, regardless of your relationship role (master or slave or something else, solo or partnered). How do we make protocols and habits stick? How do we figure out what roles and approaches work best for us when giving or receiving support in making difficult changes? How can we overcome resistance to change? This workshop will provide tools to help you make sustainable changes to achieve your goals, whether in your M/s relationships, or in your daily life.
When It All Falls
Apart
Master Nikolas
This class will focus on what happens when the dynamic falls apart. How do we survive? Move on? How do we pick up those broken pieces? This class will be interactive in hope of sharing our journeys and how we heal.
Master Nikolas
This class will focus on what happens when the dynamic falls apart. How do we survive? Move on? How do we pick up those broken pieces? This class will be interactive in hope of sharing our journeys and how we heal.
Unreasonable
Hospitality & Magical Service
slave Cita
In Unreasonable Hospitality by Will Guidara, there is a core notion that ordinary experiences can be transformed into extraordinary ones by going above and beyond with sincere, thoughtful service that stems from intentional, heartfelt acts. When applied to an M/s relationship, “unreasonable hospitality” becomes a powerful expression of devotion and attentiveness that deepens trust, appreciation, and feeling valued. Prioritizing mindfulness, personalization, and generosity, while approaching service with genuine care, creativity, and thoughtful touches, the slave can elevate everyday moments into magical ones of authentic connection. Ultimately, “unreasonable hospitality” isn’t about extravagance—it’s about making someone feel they are truly seen and that they matter, which is a powerful gift in any relationship. Of course, the Master’s manner of receiving service is an equally important expression of intention. Come ready to discuss service from either side of the slash and share ideas on how we can elevate service to create moments of magic in meaningful and delightful ways.
slave Cita
In Unreasonable Hospitality by Will Guidara, there is a core notion that ordinary experiences can be transformed into extraordinary ones by going above and beyond with sincere, thoughtful service that stems from intentional, heartfelt acts. When applied to an M/s relationship, “unreasonable hospitality” becomes a powerful expression of devotion and attentiveness that deepens trust, appreciation, and feeling valued. Prioritizing mindfulness, personalization, and generosity, while approaching service with genuine care, creativity, and thoughtful touches, the slave can elevate everyday moments into magical ones of authentic connection. Ultimately, “unreasonable hospitality” isn’t about extravagance—it’s about making someone feel they are truly seen and that they matter, which is a powerful gift in any relationship. Of course, the Master’s manner of receiving service is an equally important expression of intention. Come ready to discuss service from either side of the slash and share ideas on how we can elevate service to create moments of magic in meaningful and delightful ways.
Etiquette In and Out of the
Lifestyle
slave Jenna
Etiquette is a lot of common sense that seems not to be common anymore. Learn the 'proper' etiquette for all different situations. Introductions, events, emails, social media, text, etc.
slave Jenna
Etiquette is a lot of common sense that seems not to be common anymore. Learn the 'proper' etiquette for all different situations. Introductions, events, emails, social media, text, etc.
The Double Edged Sword of Consent
& Obedience
705
Consent and obedience are cornerstones of many M/s relationships. However, they can sometimes seem at odds, especially in dynamics built on absolute authority. This session invites an open, guided discussion on how these two principles can not only coexist but strengthen each other. We’ll explore real-world strategies for negotiating, maintaining, and honoring consent while practicing unwavering obedience, drawing from both lived experiences and established protocols. Whether you are new to Master/slave dynamics or refining a long-standing relationship, you’ll leave with a deeper understanding of how to balance these concepts without compromising either trust or structure.
705
Consent and obedience are cornerstones of many M/s relationships. However, they can sometimes seem at odds, especially in dynamics built on absolute authority. This session invites an open, guided discussion on how these two principles can not only coexist but strengthen each other. We’ll explore real-world strategies for negotiating, maintaining, and honoring consent while practicing unwavering obedience, drawing from both lived experiences and established protocols. Whether you are new to Master/slave dynamics or refining a long-standing relationship, you’ll leave with a deeper understanding of how to balance these concepts without compromising either trust or structure.